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New Release: November 11, 2025
All We Want is Everything: How We Dismantle Male Supremacy
All We Want is Everything is a bold and urgent call to name and dismantle the systems that diminish our lives and to reimagine a world built on justice, care, and collective power. From private relationships to global politics, Chemaly shows how naming and refusing male supremacy is essential to resisting the forces tearing democracy apart.
Drawing on popular culture, social science, incisive feminist analysis, and cultural critique, Chemaly offers a sweeping vision of what happens when women’s needs, voices, and rights are truly centered—not as an afterthought, but as the foundation for health, political stability, and thriving communities. With her trademark clarity and unapologetic truth-telling, she exposes the political, economic, and cultural forces that keep “everything” out of reach for so many.
In this provocative primer, she explains that male supremacy, a isn’t primarily about men dominating women; but rather a system that first and foremost violently pits men against each other using women and marginalized communities as resources in their competition for power. Under this system, anyone who isn’t white, straight, CIS, and adhering to strict rules of traditional masculinity is considered inferior and rendered “other”—women, LGBTQ+ people, people of color, immigrants, religious minorities, the disabled, and Black and Indigenous communities. Being feminized defines vulnerability, exploitability, and disposability.
All We Want Is Everything offers both unflinching analysis and genuine hope, informed by the bold and revolutionary potential of feminist imagination. This fresh, timely, clear-eyed, and necessary manifesto is a call to refuse supremacist identities, relationships, and values in order to build more just, healthy, and sustainable worlds for everyone.
Praise for All We Want is Everything
Chemaly says what too many commentators are afraid to say. The “male loneliness crisis,” in her interpretation, is actually straight men having “an equality crisis.” The solution, then, is not to back off of feminism, but to see it through to its logical conclusion: true liberation for women, for men, and for anyone of any gender. This book is the roadmap to realizing that vision. — Anna Louis Sussman, journalist
A painful, funny, and necessary book for uncertain times. Soraya Chemaly uses the past to teach us about the present and potential futures. She proves once again that equality is the only way forward for a functional society even as it feels like the world is collapsing around us because of escalating misogyny. —Mikki Kendall, author of Hood Feminism
Chemaly’s best work yet. Every chapter is a mic drop. Chemaly takes accepted societal narratives and explodes them with precise, righteous logic and, yes, entirely justified rage. But she also offers a tantalizing vision for what a different world could look like. We must heed her warning now, before it is too late. —Laura Bates, author of The New Age of Sexism
Chemaly’s writing is both incisive and hopeful, offering readers practical tools to recognize, name, and challenge the status quo. She not only diagnoses the problem, but inspires with a vision for a more equitable future for all genders. Essential reading for anyone committed to justice, equality, and the ongoing fight for true democracy. — Shannon Watts, author of Fight Like A Mother
Today, with anti-feminism on the rise around the world, women and minority communities face unique threats to their physical safety, yet all of society suffers. Male supremacy portends precarious consequences for women, but men too - from Tehran to Texas. As Chemaly argues in her urgent new book, when male supremacy is fully manifest— whether as theological fascism, varnished authoritarianism, or more insidiously, online as cultural repression— all people are simply less free.” — Caroline Modarressy-Tehrani, Emmy nominated journalist
With razor-sharp insight and analysis, Chemaly slices through the cultural narrative about the decline of men in America and argues that our rights and advancement are not a zero-sum game. Rooted in research and compellingly argued, All We Want Is Everything is a necessary myth-buster that will revolutionize the way you see not just your own life, but American democracy. This book is astonishingly revelatory, eloquent, and incisive. Like a skilled surgeon, Chemaly cuts through the rot of our cultural ogic and shows us not just what the problem is but offers us all a way out, if we choose it.—Lyz Lenz, author of This American Ex-Wife
Unapologetically feminist and brilliantly argued, like all of Chemaly’s writing, this book is also highly engaging and compulsively readable. She manages to pack a wide-ranging critique of the many ways in which male supremacy continues to blunt women’s voices and diminish their lives into one concise volume—quite a feat. She names the problem, provides user-friendly analysis, and issues a call to action. This urgent, powerful book should be widely read. —Jackson Katz, author of The Macho Paradox
Once again, Chemaly invites us to dig deep as we examine the structures around us and how male supremacy harms us all. Through thoughtful anecdotes, life experiences, and research, Chemaly investigates how male supremacy poisons our daily lives and offers us the antidote towards gender liberation. —Renee Bracey Sherman, co-author of Liberating Abortion
Weaving a tapestry of personal experience and data-driven evidence, Chemaly has forged a compendium on male supremacy that is accessible—and essential—to all readers wanting to make sense of seemingly intractable issues that stymie gender equality.—Marcie Bianco, author of Breaking Free
The Resilience Myth: New Thinking on Grit, Strength, and Growth after Trauma
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In this thought-provoking exploration, cultural critic Soraya Chemaly challenges our most dearly held, common myths of resilience and urges us to shift our perspective from prioritizing individualized traits and skills to uplifting collective care, material life, and open-ended connections with our communities. Resilience, she proves, is always relational.
Chemaly dismantles the notions of resilience rooted in the philosophies of mind over matter, “mental toughness,” “strength,” and “positive thinking,” arguing that our modern version of “resilience” is a bill of goods sold to us by capitalism, colonialism, and ideologies that embrace supremacy over others.
Blending rigorous research and enthralling personal storytelling, The Resilience Myth offers a new vision for collective healing by emphasizing care for our neighbors and our environments above just ourselves. By prioritizing compassion, creativity, and connection, this book ignites essential conversations about fostering resilience for all, not just for those who can afford it.
Praise for The Resilience Myth
“Thoughtful and well-argued, this book offers a humane vision of the ways people must adapt their ideas of what it means to thrive to a radically changing world. . . . Provocative, necessary reading.”
—Kirkus
“Ambitious. . . using a feminist and anticapitalistic framework to interrogate notions of resilience. . . this is sure to spark conversation.”
—Publishers Weekly
“Resilience is an ideology—comprising elements of individualism, bootstraps, and even victim-blaming. With characteristically brilliant arguments and meticulous research, Chemaly demolishes this ideology in The Resilience Mythand shows us how to build something so much better for everyone facing adversity. A must-read book for our age.”
—Kate Manne, author of Down Girl
“Chemaly has once again written the book we desperately need. In The Resilience Myth, Chemaly skillfully weaves science, anthropology, and history with poignant personal stories teaching us not only what real resilience looks like, but also why a new definition is more urgent than ever.”
—Dr. Pooja Lakshmin MD, psychiatrist and bestselling author of Real Self-Care
“Soraya Chemaly has written a searing indictment of one of the most pernicious fictions in America: that self-reliance can save us. With her signature clarity and penetrating mind, she subverts the ideologies of isolation that keep us divided and dissociated from ourselves and other people. Deeply informative and inspiring, The Resilience Myth is an urgent corrective to the mind/body and self/other ruptures at the heart of our collective crises. It’s a groundbreaking road map to true strength: shared struggle.”
—Jean Guerrero, author of Hatemonger
“A vital, life-saving must-read for anyone who has been force-fed the word ‘resilient’ when they feel anything but. The book I wish I'd had when I was neck-deep in trauma.”
—Nora McInerny, author of Bad Vibes Only and the host of It’s Going To Be OK
“Getting back on one's horse after a personal catastrophe feels evermore challenging—and Chemaly has, with clarity, patience, and rigor— illustrated why it's not just you, when all of us are asking, ‘Is it just me?’ She makes sense of what exists in our culture that isolates us from one another during times when we need each other most, providing a guiding light toward strength and interdependence, and ultimately, love.”